Marriage Challenge #4 Speak love to your spouse in a way they will hear you loud and clear! “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” When I follow this rule, there is usually smooth sailing, well, that is in all relationships, but one very important one. You guessed it, when it comes to my husband, I’ve realized the golden rule is not so golden! If you have read Gary Chapman’s book on the five love languages, you probably know what speaks love directly to your h

We have all heard of the golden rule: Treat others the way you want to be treated. Lately, I’m trying a slightly different version of this rule. Treat your husband like you would treat your best girlfriend. I’ve come to realize, I’m a way better best friend than I am a wife. I’ve been experimenting with this new rule since this summer. When I remember my new rule and act on it, I am amazed at the results. Here are my findings: The amount of arguing over stupid stuff goes way

Marriage Challenge Number One: Listen to your spouse!!! The very best thing we can do for our marriage is work on our listening skills! I challenge you to take the time this week to stop and listen with undivided attention to your spouse...even if all they want to talk about is college football. It can be challenging to be a good listener in the midst of the never ending to do list working mothers encounter. Many of our conversations can become a barge of questions with simpl